This time of year makes me a little nostalgic and turns my blog writing into a trip down memory lane. Many just celebrated Easter, spring is officially here and summer is right around the corner. Vacations are being planned. Lots of spring and summer activities center around friends and family, if you are lucky enough to have them and healthy enough to enjoy them.
CELEBRATIONS
Occasionally I’ve envied those with large families who gather for vacations and large celebrations. Although we have wonderful smaller celebrations, we have no large family or no such gatherings. I do miss those special times with my parents. My mom passed away 15 years ago and my dad followed the love of his life a short 11 months later. Why am I telling you this? Read on.
WHEN THEY MADE YOU, THEY THREW AWAY THE MOLD
My folks were truly remarkable people. I can very clearly see my mom’s beautiful face and can still hear my dad’s powerful words. They loved each other fiercely. He used to tell her “Love, when they made you, they threw away the mold!” No one could ever fill my mom’s shoes (nor dad’s for that matter) nor should anyone even try. Any such mold no longer exists.
DO YOU FIT THE MOLD?
Speaking of mold, what if we don’t exactly fit into the standard mold? We’ve all taken tests or filled out forms that require you to “Check the appropriate box.” How many of us have found ourselves unable to fill out the box provided when it don’t exactly apply? It has been awhile since I have been required to check the box. Surely by this time, they should have a box that says, “Create your own box.”
ONE SIZE DOES NOT FIT ALL
Have you seen those goofy articles of clothing that claim, “One size fits all?” Give me a break! I’m no fashion designer however I am aware that there is a difference between a size 2 and an 18. I can guarantee the same thing will not fit both. Times are changing and our individuality is being respected. Not everyone thinks, feels or looks the same. It’s okay to check your own box because when they made you, they threw away the mold!
ONE DIAGNOSIS DOES NOT FIT ALL
Like clothing, one medical event, circumstance or diagnosis does not fit all. Simply because you may display similar symptoms as someone else, do not rely on their “expertise” or experience. You should never self-diagnose, rely on “Dr. Google” or heaven forbid share medication.
NO LUMPING ALLOWED
If you have a medical question or condition that concerns you, don’t lump yourself into a standard mold or check the box that doesn’t fit your situation. Your circumstances are unique. Consult your provider. One size does not fit all. We at HDD wish you health and happiness so you can enjoy this beautiful new season. If you and your provider ever determine that diagnostic ultrasound is indicated, call us at 505-350-3397.