Hello! How is the world treating you on this beautiful spring day? It is all how you look at it. There is a lot going on. While some have resorted to violence and division, so many of us understand that we can choose to be happy, peaceful, and hopeful.
MEMORIES
One of my childhood memories involved an American humorist by the name of Erma Bombeck. She had a syndicated column describing suburban life from 1965 to 1996. Her column appeared in the newspaper and even though I was young, I appreciated her wisdom.
NO ULTRASOUND REFERENCE TODAY
I normally try to make the blogs relate to healthcare or ultrasound in some way. Today is not one of those days. I don’t claim to be a mental health guru but thought that the inspiration for today’s blog by Ms. Bombeck was a great mental health tune up in a time when we need it. The woman who made the world laugh also had some pretty serious, profound positive thoughts to share.
IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER
I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding patten if I weren’t there for a day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn’t show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I’d have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, “Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.” There would have been more “I love yous” and more “I’m sorrys.”
But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute, look at it and really see it…live it and never give it back.
DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF
Don’t worry about who doesn’t like you, respect or appreciate you, who has more, or who’s doing what. Instead, let’s cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.
-Erma Bombeck
A REMINDER…
Although the article feels a bit antiquated, the deeper meaning holds true and I am grateful for the reminder. Live your life to its fullest which includes taking care of yourself. If we can assist you in that endeavor, call us at 505-350-3397.