As I took my morning walk, I felt almost euphoric. It is early October and the leaves are starting their transition. Although it is nowhere close to being cold, there was a chill and taste of fall in the air. I was mesmerized by the colors, the smell, the feel… then I saw “The Signs.”
SIGNS
John and I frequent an establishment in our neighborhood. I walk past it most mornings. This morning I was greeted with myriad signs reminding guests “Do this, don’t do that.” It nearly robbed me of my joy. My thought was “How negative.” Is there a different way to convey the rules and regs?
OLD BAND
I am dating myself however…does anyone remember a band back in the 70’s called “Five Man Electrical Band?” They were one of those one hit wonders with a song called “Signs.”
LYRICS
Sign, sign
Everywhere a sign
Blockin’ out the scenery
Breakin’ my mind
Do this, don’t do that
Can’t you read the sign?
NEGATIVE NANCY
No one enjoys the company of “Negative Nancy.” That’s how I felt when I read the signs saying, “Do this, don’t do that.” A new “No no” sign is posted fairly often. My thought was, I wonder how we can change the languaging to convey the same message in a more positive vernacular.
KEEP IN MIND…
Not every violation warrants a correction. Clearly there are guidelines that must be adhered to in order to maintain safety, professionalism, order, cleanliness and respect. If you can objectively show why a correction or change should be made, it becomes more well received and palatable. Remember the old adage “You catch more bees with honey.”
IT’S NOT WHAT YOU SAY
Often it has less to do with what you say as opposed to how you say it. Adopting a blunt or thoughtlessness manner of delivery can be problematic. Empathizing with and validating the needs and feelings of others is what people want. Finding a problem is expected. Finding a solution is sublime. Show respect, appreciation and gratitude for feedback. I don’t know a soul who enjoys being chastised.
THAT BEING SAID…
Complaining about how bad things are is a waste of time without having a positive future vision. Give more than you expect to gain. Be the source of energy that lifts those around you. Never miss an opportunity for growth or development. Never miss an opportunity to shut up. Choosing to respond with gratitude, optimism and resilience will be of benefit to everyone.
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